The short answer, like anything in life, is that practice makes perfect. A good affirmation that has helped me is:
“My desires are fully known and honored by Divine Providence and I feel safe in the knowledge that whatever the outcome, the highest good flows easily and gracefully to me and through me.”
One must develop unwavering faith – which essentially is a conviction of things not seen. It is in the expression of trust and faith in the perfect wisdom of the divine. I saw this in my mother who lived fully in faith and always reminded me and my siblings that all that happens – happens for the best.
Not having expectations in events communicates that the energy you exude is a beautiful one of trust and faith rooted in spiritual fortitude. This then clears your consciousness to manifest real results that are in harmony with the quintessential spiritual laws that run the Universe.
It is the recognition to move away from ego to a higher realm where one is able to assess situations and interactions from a nonjudgmental, nonreactive viewpoint to one that is harmony with nature’s truest desires. This higher wisdom can create the perfect Garden of Eden in your lives this spring and forevermore.